Sharon Tobler, PhD
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Superior mental health is an essential ingredient for developing and maintaining physical and spiritual well-being. Dr. Sharon Tobler is a Santa Barbara, California psychologist offering a wide range of counseling and psychotherapy services to individuals, couples and groups coming not only from Santa Barbara, but also Goleta, Santa Ynez, Carpinteria, Montecito, Buellton and Ventura.

As a therapist, she treats not only the typical reasons why clients seek therapy, such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and stress reduction, but also individuals and couples who desire relationship therapy or more commonly called marriage counseling or marital therapy. A more complete range of services is listed below.
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Dr. Tobler grew up overseas.
She lived in Europe, the Far and Middle East.
She returned to the United States as a young adult to begin her undergraduate work at Georgetown University in Washington, D.C.
Dr. Tobler is a clinical psychologist licensed in four states: California, Florida, Maryland, and Virginia.
She received her doctorate in 1984 from the University of Maryland and saw private clients in the Washington, D.C. area until 1995 at which point she relocated to Southwest Florida to devote a portion of her career to writing.
Since in real life you can't turn a toad into a prince with a kiss, Princes & Toads, a user-friendly guide, offers sound advice to help you tell the difference between the two.
Although its title implies that Princes & Toads is for heterosexual women seeking men, its content is really about how to have a healthy and loving partnership irrespective of gender or sexual proclivity.
You may peruse it cover to cover if you are interested in the complete process of preparing for, finding and keeping a loving and healthy partnership.
What we do best in the world, or how others mostly perceive us, is always a behavior that becomes our curse.
For example, if you are known as a "Saint" type, you are also probably a "Doris Doormat."
The goal is to resolve the challenge of Doris without giving up the "Saint."
I cannot emphasize enough that starting with attainable goals is paramount since the key to development of self-love is the successful accomplishment of these goals.
The other necessary ingredient is eliminating negative self talk.
If he does not like who that is, do not take it personally and move on to your next prospect.
Sometimes this is not the case.
Some people are just naturally striking, however, it is good to assess which it is before diving in too deep.
If you want a man of substance pay special attention to what he has developed inside.
Many men make the choice to grow because they love a certain woman who will not tolerate his bad behavior.
It is your women friends who will remain by your side through trials, tribulations and heartbreaks.
How much does my family of origin experience have to do with my relationship with a partner?
A lot. Family of origin history does dramatically affect every aspect of your life.
A romantic relationship is often a replication of the relationship you had with your primary caregivers.
It can either heal or further harm you depending on how you choose to engage in the partnership.
Becoming CONSCIOUS is the solution.
You must uncover the old wounds and take action to heal them otherwise you are doomed to repeat the hurts of the past.
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